Guy made me go through hell.
Most Helpful Guy
The time you're seeking revenge can be time spent looking for someone more compatible for you. Isn't it a waste of time trying to put spite on a person that shouldn't be even part of your life anyway?0
Most Helpful Girl
Honestly, it's not worth it to seek out revenge. in my opinion revenge only comes back to bite you in the butt. Why not, instead of focusing so much on your ex, you let it go? Sure he is a jerk. But you are allowing him to pre-occupy your time and mind and allowing him to live rent-free in your head. Nothing says "I'm not over it yet" like seeking out revenge. It just reeks of you not being over it., That is going to massage his ego because he will know he got to you.
The best revenge is to work on yourself. Do better, be a better person. Live the life you dream about and chase after your goals.0