How do you cut people off?

Hello all , I'm outgrowing my current friends and would like to leave the social group. I've tried before telling them "Hey I need to get my life together and lets not talk for a year" and they begged me not to and I don't really know what to do. I have love for them but I feel like their holding me back. Any advice, I don't want to be mean to get my point across.

Reasons for leaving

- Not intellectually stimulating
- No intellectual humility
- Lack of self control
- Over emotional ( Which leads to LOTS irrational decisions )
- Can't see consequences to their actions
- Repeating same bad decisions
- Not introspective
- 50/50 of getting physical when offended
- Brain numbing conversations
- Very bad problem solving skills

How do you cut people off?
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