Not over him, how can I be?

About three months ago my boyfriend and I of five months split up. He dumped me over text after a month of being horrible to me.
This guy was my first actual love and it hurt a lot when we broke up and I'm still not over him, I've liked a few guys since him, but nothing ever happened with any of them.
He came by a month ago to pick up some of his stuff that was still at my house and just to see him made my heart ache.
How can I get over him?
Not over him, how can I be?
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