I am 16, and i thought she was the one, i was better but i still think of her a lot and we are still friends. How do i stop and do you believe the "one" exists?
How do I get over a breakup?
What Girls Said 2
First, I'm sorry to tell you this but the likelyhoid at 16 of finding "the one" is so incredibly slim but what to do to heal? You should get your Mind and body busy doing things, lots of things. The more you fill your day with friends, sports, hobbies, school the less space there will be to dwell on her. In doing these things you'll also find that there will be other girls to look forward to snd life will get better. And remember,
every new beginning comes from some other beginning's end.2
There's no remedy for a broken heart. All you can do is go along with your feelings and emotions.
After a break-up people go through a similar grieving process as someone who's loved one has died. So the process is necessary in order to heal and move on.
People say time eases pain , but that's not true... it's what you do with your time which eases it. Try to focus your mind on things other than what was and what could have been... no matter how hard that is. Eventually your pain will ease and your feelings will fade
Even when people find the "one" they still have to both work and put effort into the relationship to make it survive. Love is not enough to make a relationship endure a lifetime... compromise , mutual respect , communication and self- sacrificing from both people is needed to strengthen the relationship so it will last1
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