We were together for almost 3 years, She dumped me because she was missing out on being single and having fun, I was crushed badly, lost 15 pounds and was super depressed. The after 2 months she came back to me and I took her back and was the happiest guy ever. Then after a week she dumped me again for the same reason and I was crushed all over again. Now I hear that she still loves me more than anything and I feel the same way. But I don't know if she wants to get back together or not. and I'm not sure if I would even take her back a 3rd time. I love her so much and she mean the world to me and I can't imagine losing her forever...i don't know what to do and I don't know how she thinks, I afraid to ask her cause I'm afraid of the answer...this sucks
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My advice is to move on, don't take an ex back, what ever feelings you have for her are clearly not expressed by her, ie she isn't that interested in you, what would have happened is when she was single she would have dated a few guys who may have messed her around which lowered her self esteam, so she looked at her phone book and saw your name. she then asked to get abck to you simply as an ego boost until she saw someone better and then took off. staying with this girl will cause you constant pain and frustration..
Next time she calls you you need to tell her your not interested and would like her to delete your number and forget your name, trust me this will really hurt you but it will show her your not a door matt so you can walk with some self respect. in time you will get better and can start moving on.
as a side note the fact she knew she could get back with you tells me you need to learn to not be a wimp, (I know it sounds cruel but that's usualy why girls lose interest)