Most Helpful Guy
I think you should let the relationship go if he wants out. Sneaking out and stuff is cool and exciting but after awhile it gets tiresome and will strain a relationship. Your situation and his deployment are too very different things. One is about commitment and service the other is childish bullshit between parents and a child. Until you are able to date like a normal person this will continue to be an issue.
Most Helpful Girl
I know its challenging but you're old enough to tell your parents what you want. If you want to date you need to tell them you're adult and thats it ridiculous. My ex was in the army and let me tell you its hard enough what they are going through on top of being away from a home. He doesn't need the stress of yalls relationship. He needs to know he can count on you and when he gets the opportunity to spend some much needed time with youn you need make that happen. Being in a relationship with a service man can be challenging, maybe you should consider its a lot of understanding and patience. But if you can't even stand up to your parents then I hate to say it but he's right. You're not putting yalls relationship as a priority. Talk to your parents. You're 22 years old and an adult. That might make all the difference that you need and show him that you are serious, you love him, want to be with him, and that he is important to you. Guys need to know that just as much as girls do.