my ex boyfriend left me a month ago after our 20 month relationship. Said i was not his wife material. Will he realize his loss?
Most Helpful Guy
If he broke up with you because you are non-wife material, why would he return to you? He'd return only if he broke up with you on condition that you level up to the status of wife material. Was that the case?
Likewise, he would only return if "not wife material" wasn't the reason for the breaking up, and no other woman appeals to him but you.1
Most Helpful Girl
Everything is possible, who knows. But I advise you not to take him back if that ever happens. Because you will get very insecure and it will ruin you. What's done is done, try not to look back. If he was the one he wouldn't leave you. You were just incompatible. If you ever do change (I mean if the problem really was you), then your feelings for him change too and as a result you won't want him back anymore. I also do not recommend staying friends. When my ex of 4 years dumped me for similar reason, I tried staying friends because he assured me how he also wants that. After a year he totally disappeared on me, never bothered to contact me or ask me how I'm doing. I heard he has a girlfriend. I regret so much agreeing to stay friends, he didn't only betrayed our relationship, but also our friendship, I was fooled twice. And it's totally my fault. Now that I think about, I have no idea why was I with that looser for so long... he is SO NOT WORTH IT.1