This brings me incredible pain. Looking at couples traveling together punches my chest, because how his next girl will look like next to him, what countries they will visit together. Seeing happy families with babies also makes me depressed, because I think how his babies with someone else will look like. When I think of him leaving home and finding his new corner somewhere in the city I think who will live with him next, share chores with him, see him when they wake up, see him naked, kiss him before going to work, or care for finances together, like we enjoyed doing... it literally kills me, I feel like I cannot breathe. I look at random girls in the street and think if she is the type he would choose next. What could any girl give him that I didn't? We had great sex, good plans together, we enjoyed similar activities, I pretty much supported him in every goal and dream, from quitting smoking to producing music or even quitting a job he didn't like. Did you feel like this when you broke up, or do you think I have serious abandonment issues and am doing well to seek counseling? I am so lost and hate feeling this way, I am truly suffering and unhappy...
Most Helpful Guy
Why did you marry this grade a asshole again?
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It's normal to feel heartbroken, better to experience it now though then 10 years down the road when you would have more to lose... Doesn't sound like he was ready for marriage... The pain will gradually get better, it will take time and you will likely go through different stages of grief... My boyfriend and I broke up 9 months ago and it still hurts, but I don't cry and feel anxiety like I did... I'll cry every now and then hearing a song or watching a movie that makes me sad, your young you will meet a great guy who wants to love you and will be ready for a relationship... good luck !