How long does it take for someone to realize what they lost or miss, and will he ever come back ( a bit long)?
What Guys Said 1
I know it's driving you mad and it feels kind of like being yanked out of a nice cozy dream and thrown onto a hot frying pan...
I know your mind wants to find a solution but there really is nothing you can do. He may come back and he may not. The only thing you can do is work on your mind. You must find peace within yourself.
How can he take you back when you're so insecure? Put yourself in his shoes for a moment. Would you want someone who is devastated without you? You wouldn't, not really. You'd want somebody who really enjoys you but who is also fine without you.
And really, do you want somebody that doesn't truly want you? I don't think so. You really want someone who WANTS you, right?
Well, right now, that's not him. If it were, he's be kissing you right now.
So just let him go and focus on yourself for a while. He will be back if he feels the urge. I'm not saying don't tell him your feelings etc, but really, he knows. Just breathe and learn to control your mind. Eventually, you'll get better and you will find someone new, or he will come back.
What Girls Said 1
Usually when the other person is needed and they realize they are not in the picture- thats really when.1
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