What is he doing?
What Guys Said 2
those things didn't change
i assume u want him to change
who made the mistakes to whom
he wanted to be with you, he would make the effort to message you
yes he will message u right away after 3 months to express his undying love on one knees wearing a suit
I can tell you still love him and I know it's frustrating to be thinking about someone and that someone isn't there.
Your job is to take care of YOU. Don't use social media to gather information, in fact, don't gather information at all. Just let it go. You are the one placing conditions on your love, meaning you want him to change.
You can never change people. Love them, or don't but don't try an change them, it has never worked. Ask your parents if they were successful in changing you, just as an example. Cannot be done.
Work on your own mind, and truly see if you really love him as the person he is, and all of it. If you do, then go for it. If not, focus on what it is you want and sooner or later, if you don't judge him, or yourself, it will come to you.
I hope this gives bit of solace and makes some sense.
Best of luck.
What Girls Said 1
If he left you, it's on him to make it up and come back to you. Not the other way around. If he knows you wanted it to work but still hasn't tried then there's not much hope. If it's tough to you to see him online then I encourage you to delete him or block him (if you don't want him to know you deleted him). It's just torture to yourself to keep him there.
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