Just so you know, we are currently getting along and we still have a sex life, we still like each other very much. However, I feel that marriage should be something much more serious and believe in commitment, while he apparently got tired quickly, meets new people pretty much everyday, even went on a few dates and told me multiple times that he wants me to make future plans without him. He strongly believes I am unbalanced and unreliable (which is probably true, but look who is talking...)
Most Helpful Guy
It sounds to me like he wants it both ways - he doesn't want to lose you, but he doesn't really want to commit to you or really invest in the relationship either. in my opinion, you're going to be hurt either way, but by divorcing now, at least you get the process underway, and after a period of mourning, you'll be able to move on and find a guy who actually WILL commit to you and invest himself in the relationship.
If you stay together, you'll still be miserable, because he's never going to change.
Most Helpful Girl
have you guys tried some form of counseling?