I'm gonna read that when I have time lol.
Lol yes sorry it's a bit long, have a habit of doing that
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Well... uh... um.Couldn't you have gotten him arrested easily enough on the check-cashing?Those places always have a million zillion cameras *everywhere*... being, as they are, so often literally the only places in the entire neighborhood with cash inside.
@redeyemindtricks yeah I could have. We had been friends for years though and dated for about 2 years. He started using drugs 1 1/2 into us dating, so I was trying to be nice and help him sober up, stay clean, get back on his feet. So I didn't. Ya live and learn right?
Ah got you.
Or anything he gave me at a happier time. There are something's I've kept becuase Im sentimental but VERY few.
Does it signal that everything is over? Because when I buy stuff I want her to have it. It's her items from then on when I give gifts.
If Im giving everything back then yea it means I want nothing to do with the guy. In the situations where Im a little sentimental things probably didn't end horribly so if they wanted we'd be friends or at least friendly/respectful to eachother. Yes, a lot of guys are that way but sometimes reminders hurt.
Yup it can be.
Hoodies they bought you, for you, in yr size?Or hoodies of theirs, that you "stole"?(I'm making certain assumptions about clothing sizes, feel free to correct me if those assumptions are incorrect)The former thing doesn't seem weird to me, but the latter kinda does. If I were a dude, and my g/f still had (and still *wore*) a previous dude's hoody, I... uh, I don't know how much I'd like that.
@redeyemindtricks :) I see your point! But no, not like hoodies I borrowed from them because I was cold but then never returned. That kind of thing I gave back at the end of our flings together or donated to someone less fortunate. But zip up hoodies and sweaters are some of my favorite things, and the guys in my life who knew me best often bought them for me as birthday or Christmas gifts because they knew how much I liked them. So they are all in my size, just like the jewelry or whatever little other trinkets I have kept. The other scenario would probably be a little odd; you're right about that.
That makes the two of us.I honestly don't give a shit about the item not will I accept it. But it makes me hope that there is a future if she hasn't returned it.