Thing is, last week we were joking about and he asked me to do something so I asked why and he was like "Because you love me" and when I replied with "I think", he got really upset, turned his back to me so I couldn't hug him, would barely speak and looked like he was crying. He was just like "No offence but this is why I don't have a gf" which really hurt my feelings but he explained he meant he didn't have a girlfriend before because he always messed everything up and broke everything he touched. I felt so bad about hurting his feelings.Then yesterday he asked if I loved him, I was trying to avoid answering but he kept keeping on & I told him he got upset last time I said "I think" when he realised that was still the answer, he got upset again and looked like he was crying, plus he says he's scared of losing me.I feel so bad because if I do decide to break up with him, I don't know how without really hurting his feelings and confirming his fears :/
holly cats thats naughty!
ass o'clock. I love it!
We all have those things we wish we could get a do-over on in life, and that's somewhere near the top of the list. But 16 year old me was a terrible excuse for a human being and I should have harakiri'd myself over that poor showing😞https://i.makeagif.com/media/9-14-2015/vyNnjt.gif
aww thats really sad to hear:(
it sure is, especially remembering that image of her crying so hard, i never thought a girl could cry like that. especially for me.
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good for you!
Wow, that's actually one of the coolest way to break up :) I like that.
I know! I still regret hurting her like that. She should have shot me! We should learn from our mistakes and I did on that one. I felt bad for doing it, but I didn't have the courage to tell her after I did it.
Glad to hear u learned from ur mistake, I have a friend whose ex boyfriend did that to her, I thought it was really unfair since she was left there wondering if they were still together or not. He should have just said so that she knew what was happening and could move on sooner. I remember she kept trying to call him but he wouldn't pick up, wouldn't answer messages and then she was on about maybe writing him a letter. I could figure he was maybe trying to disappear from the equation instead of just breaking up with her, but she wasn't so smart to the fact and I didn't have the heart to tell her maybe he wasn't interested anymore. Ofc she ended up following my advice, sending him a message asking if they were still together or not and it'd be best to just tell her and if he didn't answer within a certain amount of time of seeing the message, she would just take it as they'd broken up. He didn't answer and she ended up getting back with her previous boyfriend though he doesn't always treat her the b
@StewieRH I'm glad your friend listened to you. Sometimes we want something so bad that we can't see how badly not knowing is bothering us. It's always better to know the truth rather than continuing to worry.
I agree completely. If he'd just told her then she at least would have known what was happening instead of continuing to water a dead flower. As I say, she's back with her previous boyfriend now, though I'm not sure he's good for her either - won't bother replying to her for days & use Xbox or family problems as an excuse when he could at least tell her.He recently didn't contact her for a week and his excuse was that his phone needed charging and resetting. I told her that wouldn't take a week to do and she said she knew so I asked what else it was and he'd just said family problems.Tbh I think the guys making up excuses. My friend told me before she was worried if he was seeing someone else behind her back, and when I asked if he had any close female friends he hung out with, she answered "Yh, lots" which doesn't sound good at all -_-This girl is not the brightest of people, but she is super nice & deserves a better boyfriend.
@StewieRH The old boyfriend is lying, not making excuses. I don't know where you live, but where I am everybody everywhere you go, has phones. Many will let you use their phone for a very short call. I think your friend might be a person who needs a boyfriend even though he may be abusive. The guy is showing your friend no respect at all. That is reason enough to dump him. I guess there is a reason he was an ex. You are a good friend. Don't give up on her. She needs you.
I know, I do always try give her advice. Thing is, I need advice with my own relationship right now too. I always let her know if I don't think her boyfriend is treating her right though
@StewieRH What do you need help with. I'd be happy to help if I can.
me too dude :P I always love the advice of older men
@starryeyedkitten I'll try. What's up.
I have many questions for you:P but first I'll start it off tame what do you want to tell people in my age group, like advice
I have a lot that I can say to the youth of today. Do you mind doing this in the private messaging. I'm not a preditor, I just find it easier and it keeps the conversation between us without others putting messages in the middle of what we say. If not, that's fine too.
Thats pretty messed up
Right I was ruthless well still am kind of sometimes but its okay... some can't handle me but thats okay im not for everyone and everyones not for me... luckily I dont have to deal with the bullshit anymore of breaking up
Id like to get that way.. normally im the dumpee because i simply dont take hints well
Bahaha giiirl the dumpee rolw can be just as fun... if ur gonna break up why not take out all the fucked up shit from the relationship out lol ain't like you got anyone to impress
True im just tired of getting dumped
It didn't actually happen lol
you have every right to that
who'd u choose
The latter. I should've dumped my ex sooner...
I keep warning subtly but in clear terms & words from time to time & one fine day when she piles a straw one too much I call it off. She isn't (never will be) ready for it, ego can't take it + losing an 'acquired' dream isn't the easiest for most so there it starts
this made me laugh
That will definitely break someone
You won the lottory or somethin?
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