Whats the most fxxxed up way you broke up with someone?

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  • back in high school i ended up being approached by my dream girl and asked out 1 week before i ended up moving out of state and had to break up with her.
    the move was sudden and i really hurt her feelings telling her i was moving.
    and that day keeps playing over and over all the time.

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  • Well, I got caught cheating. Well, not exactly caught. More like, planned to get caught. It was high school, we were young, and I was tired of my boyfriend's shit. So I knew this kid really liked me in my pre calc class, (i was an honor student by the way ;) ), so I decided to flirt with him a few day a week to get him all hot and ready. Then, I lured him to my boyfriend's house, and we proceeded to have sex in my boyfriend's bed. I strategically planned it so that my boyfriend would walk in, since I knew his schedule.
    When he came in, the look on his face was devastating. At the time though, I didn't care. I looked him in the eyes and continued. Looking back on it now, I feel bad. Would I do it again? Probably not.

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  • I was a teenager when I did this. I just didn't call or see her anymore. I didn't take her calls. In school, I ignored her. That was very cruel of me. I never did it again.

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    • wow !:(

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    • I have a lot that I can say to the youth of today. Do you mind doing this in the private messaging. I'm not a preditor, I just find it easier and it keeps the conversation between us without others putting messages in the middle of what we say. If not, that's fine too.

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  • Oh man... I hate remembering this😖 Probably around 16 or so I was talking to this girl named Jill, just over the phone, we'd never met (the Internet wasn't really around yet👴🏻). Before texting, teenagers were kind of notorious for always being on the phone talking to friends, etc, and this was one of those deals, we'd just chill and talk about random stuff on the phone, and we got along pretty well. Eventually we decided to meet up and see a movie. I met her and friend a friend at a nearby mall. I remember waiting by the fountain outside of the theater and they came up and were walking around looking for me, and the friend called her out by name, seemingly intentionally, and I'm just sitting there like "Mehhh... I was hoping she'd be hotter." So I'm debating if I even ID myself to her, but they came up and asked me if I was Steve, and I said "yes", and we went in to the movie, Batman Forever if I remember correctly😂 So we just sat there in the dark kind of awkwardly, the movie ended, and I was nice enough to her I guess, but didn't really go all in. We said our goodbyes and hugged, and our respective parents showed up to pick us up, haha, I didn't have a driver's license yet. I don't know, as I remember she wasn't even terrible looking, solid 7/10 if we're putting numbers on it, but for whatever reason I thought I was too cool for anything short of a '10', because so many of them were banging my door down, right?🙄😂 But I didn't have the heart to just tell her I just wasn't really into her. So, in my infinite teenage wisdom, I decided that the best move was to be a major league douchebag until SHE stopped talking to ME😒 I think I knew her through some other chick I hooked up with for a while earlier, pretty sure they were cousins. I think the first chick got a boyfriend at one point and shut me off from hooking up but was like "here, call my cousin."😂😂😂 Anyway, I didn't call her much for a while, then I found out she and her cousin got in some kind of physical fight, just about other shit. Not like a knockdown drag-out, but some hair probably got pulled and maybe one punch was thrown, just a brief minor dust-up. But the next time the girl called I just was wicked mean to her for no reason and I started saying "I heard Crystal kicked your ass" and making fun of her for it, etc. She started crying and hung up, and we never spoke again. Like it was so cruel I still can't believe that was me who did it.

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  • I used to be an asshole. There was this girl running after mr through my higschool. And one day we got drunk and I kind of asked her to be my girlfriend (because I wanted to have fun with her), the other day I decided not to talk about us any more and play it like I've never asked her...

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  • You want to hear about the one that was dragged out of the restaurant screaming by her older sister, for going out when grounded?

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  • Broke up with her at her house, grabbed my Deadpool hat I gave her and got in my car then drove home

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  • We fought until three am on kik messenger and I finally gave up on trying to talk to him so when he tried to guilt trip me by asking if I was breaking up with him (for the second time) I just said yes and let him curse me out
    I still feel really shitty because it was over kik at ass o'clock in the morning

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  • I don't like breaking up with people in messed up ways, that always just makes me feel bad since I don't like hurting peoples feelings so I try to do it gently. Haven't had good experience with that though -

    When I'd recently turned 18 I started going out with guy online (if you could call it that since we never actually met up), I didn't really want to from the start but he kinda talked me into it. The next day I thought "That's it, I've got to break up with him, I'm not dating someone online, he seems nice and all but I just don't like him that much in that way anyway" but then I found out it was his birthday and felt bad so decided to maybe give it a week and see how I felt.

    Week passed, still wanted to break up but didn't know how as he seemed so nice to me and so happy about being together. 9th day, he barely spoke, 10th day I had the courage to gently try break up with him. He of course took it badly and was like "You could've just told me you didn't want to see me anymore" and saying stuff like "Well the past few days have been the best of my life but... meh". Did not take it well, I tried doing it gently but I still managed to upset him and felt really guilty about it.

    The next year, still 18, started going out with a guy who was 16. We weren't official though and didn't do anything inappropriate since I was unsure about the age gap though he didn't really care. We were more or less going out anyway though I did have my doubts sometimes and wasn't sure if it would last long due to his kind of personality, but I thought things seemed to actually be going really well.

    He said he was happy to wait for me until he was 17 and I said I'd still be loyal in the mean time and he promised the same, but long story short, ended up cheating on me with a female friend of his because he "wasn't good at waiting for people". He wasn't going to tell me but I managed to figure it out myself and he admitted it on fb to me.

    It ended with me being annoyed, humiliated and disappointed and telling him I hated him, and him telling me he still loved me and blah blah blah. I didn't believe any of that though - You don't cheat on someone you truly love. You love someone that much? You'd be cool with dating them and them being loyal to you but waiting 3 months before making it official.

    I'm unsure what to do with my current boyfriend as I'm in between thinking "Maybe it's best to break up" & "Maybe I should give him another chance"

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    • Thing is, last week we were joking about and he asked me to do something so I asked why and he was like "Because you love me" and when I replied with "I think", he got really upset, turned his back to me so I couldn't hug him, would barely speak and looked like he was crying. He was just like "No offence but this is why I don't have a gf" which really hurt my feelings but he explained he meant he didn't have a girlfriend before because he always messed everything up and broke everything he touched. I felt so bad about hurting his feelings.

      Then yesterday he asked if I loved him, I was trying to avoid answering but he kept keeping on & I told him he got upset last time I said "I think" when he realised that was still the answer, he got upset again and looked like he was crying, plus he says he's scared of losing me.

      I feel so bad because if I do decide to break up with him, I don't know how without really hurting his feelings and confirming his fears :/

  • I had a guy who was desperate. He didn't love me but he just wouldn't go after several attempts to end it. He would just keep trying to contact me. He lost his license for 6 months. I told him not to contact me again for the last time and then made sure I disappeared.

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  • I've only broke up with one person. He came round to mine and I broke up with him, we'd been together 3 years. It sucked but had to be done, I was moving on with my life and didn't see him in it. We're really good friends now though, so water under the bridge.

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  • "you're a fat and ugly bitch. I don't want to be with you and so does nobody else... It's over "
    Through text messaging

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