Also since we broke up he moved to the flat upstairs and still had my body cream by his bath, like he expected to see me again. He kept mentioning things about our past, like do I still cook this meal I made him, and he got up and made me toast and tea like he used to, and more things like that. He said he hasn't been seeing anyone & didn't really want to know if I'd been with anyone, but was curious. He gave me the backpack I bought him to take home and put my laptop in. He said it's a good excuse to see me again.
He mentioned that it's strange but so familiar, and this might mess with our heads, but we can worry about it later. He obviously told his friend I was seeing him, because he showed me a text his friend sent saying me & my ex should meet him at this festival locally.
We're both mature enough. 28 &32 years old, but I'm not sure where we will go from here. We split up amicably. He's asked me twice to meet him, and I finally did, but we didn't speak about our feelings. He's worried about getting old, but I know that he's not a relationship kind of guy. Not a player, but likes his personal space. When we hooked up, he held me all night, but I think that a future with us is doomed, and things could get messy.
Most Helpful Guy
If the two of you want to, why not? I did with my ex-wife. We couldn't live together without lots of issues so we divorced. Our sex life was always great. After about 3 months of being divorced, we decided we missed our sex lives. We did this until she met a guy she was interested in. We had agreed we would stop when one of us started seeing someone else. It went on for about 4 months. We still see each other because of our kids, but the sex never happened again.0
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So the both of you split up on good terms. It seems like him living upstairs has really done wonders for him and that has made him get closer to you. I'm sure there are feelings there, but what you have now seems like it's working. Don't expect anything more then just allowing for your emotions and his to become more stronger. At the end of the day he goes back to his place and your in yours. If you want that, well that's entirely up to you.1