Last month, August, we had a serious fight which leads to not talking to each other for consecutive days. Then yesterday, i asked him if we are still in a relationship. I asked him if he wants to continue our relationship even if it is not the same as before. He said, he doesn't want to continue our relationship. He doesn't feel me as a girlfriend. He doesn't know what he really feels.
He's the reason why we had a serious fight, why did he has the guts to be the first to break up with me? Do you think he's having an affair, cuz i can't think of any more reasons why. Said he loves me but then, why is it so easy for him to give up?
Most Helpful Guy
Fights over and over can result in relationships minor amnesia in severe cases where one party will forget completely why they fell in love with the other.0
Most Helpful Girl
that just happened to me too. but we didn't have a fight or anything. he just starting acting cold and distant in Aug. finally just a few days ago I got so annoyed I sent as text saying "do u even like me anymore?" he said, "your cool, you're ok, I'm just going through some things." I haven't talked to him since. I have no reason to think he's is (was) cheating, so like your boyfriend, unless you have some legit proof or reason to think he's cheating I wouldn't assume that. I think my ex just was having mixed emotions and maybe isn't as into me as he was b4. maybe it's the same for your situation. but let me ask you, should I give my ex his bday present I got for him? it's nothing lavish or mushy, just stuff for his apartment. but his bday is wed. I thought maybe I'd just say (since we aren't fighting) "hey I got this for u b4 we decided to be friends, I'd like to give it to you still since we still cool". should I?