Last month, August, we had a serious fight which leads to not talking to each other for consecutive days. Then yesterday, i asked him if we are still in a relationship. I asked him if he wants to continue our relationship even if it is not the same as before. He said, he doesn't want to continue our relationship. He doesn't feel me as a girlfriend. He doesn't know what he really feels.
He's the reason why we had a serious fight, why did he has the guts to be the first to break up with me? Do you think he's having an affair, cuz i can't think of any more reasons why. Said he loves me but then, why is it so easy for him to give up?
Most Helpful Guy
Cause constant fighting in relationship can cause loss of feelings.. So maybe he stopped loving you and moved on early... That's why he could breakup easily.0
Most Helpful Girl
He didn't break up with you over a nonsense reason. Not having feelings for your partner or having no desire to pursue anything anymore is a perfectly valid and normal reason to break up. Most people break up due to lack of feelings.
He likely has been feeling this way for a long time and the fight just triggered him to take action and get you away without having to confront you initially. It's not about him having more guts. He just isn't into the relationship anymore. It doesn't mean he's having a affair.0