Yes that makes sense! That's what I thought about my ex.. That he always had my back regardless of the silly arguments we had I thought he would always be here. But now during the breakup he said some horrible things to me and said that the more he got to know me the more he didn't like me! I have lost all sense of hope I feel useless I feel used I feel ashamed I feel embarrassed!!! He was my first love first boyfriend first for everything
I understand that it feels awful to be treated this way. However, you could also look at it from a different angle.Your guy didn't suddenly transform into a monster. What he said about loving you less as time went on, simply means that from the beginning, when he only noticed the things he loves about you, as time went on, he stopped thinking as much about those, and started focusing on traits in you he found less desirable.This can happen in any relationship. In fact, the successful relationships are those where both part strive to bring the best persons that they are, to the relationship AND where both parties make the effort to keep thinking about the positive aspects of one another.If one, or both parties sort of let it slide, pretty soon there will be discord in the relationship. It doesn't mean you or he was or is wrong. It just means one or both of you didn't keep up with what was created between you.He was doing the best he could and maybe you can begin to see this too.
Said tongue in cheek I assume. Made me laugh haha
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okay then make a choice separate or work things out its up too you but my advice forgive no matter what whether you get back together or not
I have become just that! Now it's like a rollercoaster that I can't stop! I
That's a scary thing for a man because women can unfortunately get away with being an emotional terror. We have all been thought the brake up ringer. I promise it will get better don't let this change you. Everyday that passes it will get better. You have to keep busy.
It seems that be getting worse iv lost all passion for anything it's effected my health so much of my life! I just don't want him to do better now the thought that his succeeding and I'm falling into this dark negative depressing hole is messing me up
The issues is the anger and animosity that you harbor for this guy. As soon as you can let that go then you can heal and get through it. I'm not sure if this is a fresh break up but like I said you have to give it time. If posting on here and talking to people makes you feel better the keep doing that. Keep doing positive things that make you feel better. I can promise you that hurting him well not make you feel better in the long run that's just childish.