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At least you're honest. Why? Why not leave first?
@PinkMichae Why? Because I can. Because I can take a break from fucking one girl to fuck another. Because I've learned and finally accepted that women are incapable of loyalty. They simply can't do it. And that just the way it is. As I said, I understand that now, and I accept it. But since I can't *get* loyalty/faithfulness/whatever you want to call it, I feel no particular need to GIVE it, either. Nor will I typically engage in unnecessary honesty.
That's a cop out. Girls are capable. I was loyal to a man for 15 years. Unfortunately he wasn't. Doesn't mean I'm gonna put that on someone else. You could miss out on a really great woman doing that. And if you never give someone a chance you will end up alone. Sure you can deceive women into loving you or fucking you but they will eventually find out. I had to look at what was my part in making my man unhappy that led him to cheat as well. Maybe if I would have paid more attention to him and wasn't so oblivious to his unhappiness he wouldn't have. But if you can lI've with yourself hurting girls over and over on purpose with no reason then it's your life. Just chronically selfish.
@PinkMichae You expect me to believe that you've NEVER cheated on a man, ever? Let's define this, shall we? I know women like to rationalize what they've done by saying things like "He wore a condom, so it doesn't count".If you have ever had contact with the dick of a man that wasn't your boyfriend/fiancee/husband, you cheated. Same if he had any kind of contact with your 'gina. Or if you kissed.I would rather be alone than get fucked over again. I had to start my life over again in my early 30s, after ten years, and tens of thousands of dollars poorer plus around 10k in debt. And I was one of the LUCKY ones. Most men don't get out nearly as easily as inexpensively as I did. Being alone isn't the worst thing I can imagine. Being chained to an aging harpy that's angry at how her life turned out, spends money like a drunken sailor, and lives to make me miserable is MUCH worse. And that's what happens eventually.
I won't miss out on a 'great' woman because there are no great women. My friends with benefits is as close as I've ever even heard of, and she's not LTR material because she's over 26 and has kids. I have no problem hurting women over and over again, using them for what I want and then discarding them. They have absolutely no problems doing the same to men, so if I bump my head and feel a slight twinge of conscience I just have to remember that she's royally fucked over SOME man at some point, so I'm just giving her what she's earned. I'm sorta like Karma's Little Helper or something.
I've only had two relationships but I don't expect you to believe anything I say. But I do feel sad that you were hurt so bad. But then again everyone has. Not just you. Everyone is capable of cheating but I believe if people work hard enough, listen, and communicate then they can have an imperfect relationship without cheating. But if it make you happy believing it doesn't exist then that's your choice. Take care.