Is it clever to use an ex's friends and family to prove you have changed/matured?
What Guys Said 1
First of all he is your ex, so why bother? do you have any plans to get back with him. I wouldn't say it's wrong but I don't think it's the best way to go about this, however you should only do this if your ex just doesn't want to talk to you or see you then you can use his family to prove it to him that you have changed.
It's not wrong.
What Girls Said 1
Nah, just shows you're thinking about your ex too much.
Best advice I can give is to just grow up, move on and use that energy you're spending on trying to one up him in another more important area of your life.
I know people say success is the best revenge, and it is, but there's no need to go out of your way to prove that.
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