Most Helpful Guy
I plan this resort vacation for my girlfriend birthday and found out she been lying to me. I told her on the vacation we should go our separate ways when we get back home. I tried to wait after the trip but she sensed something was wrong.
If you want to wait to after his birthday then I understand but, if you can't because things get heated then, don't sweat it.
Most Helpful Girl
I would just break up with him. Don't make it wait. But if you really want to wait until after, I guess just pretend everything is alright until about a week after his birthday and just tell him you don't want to be with him anymore or let him know your reasonings.