So my ex and I dated about a year ago and I broke up with him about 2 months later. Then this past spring we started talking again and would talk for hours every day for about 4 months. We grew really close and developed feelings for each other again. I thought we were going to get back together until he started dating this other hot chick because I wouldn't put out lol. Then he started treating me like shit. I have enough self respect not to tolerate being constantly disrespected, strung along, and taken for granted so I just decided to cut him out of my life. I blocked him from everywhere without giving him closure or any sort of warning. I just blocked him. End of story. It's been 6 weeks of absolutely no contact whatsoever and for some reason I can't get him out of my head. Even though he was a completely shallow douche, I find myself missing the little things about him: his voice, his humor, etc. I'm pretty sure he doesn't give a damn about me but I'm so curious. What were his thoughts? And more importantly how can I get him out of my head?
Most Helpful Guy
The best way to get over some one is to get under some one else0
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Okay I have definitely been here before. I'm gonna tell you a story, okay? I don't really speak about this much, but I feel you need to hear it. I dated this guy named Shawn in 7th grade. We flirted all the time, and one day he asked me out and I said yes. He would write these love letters to me and tell me he loves me and all that. Back then I was very shy but very romantic. I would write him deeper love letters a lot. But that's just how I showed affection. About 2 months later, he sent a mutual friend to break up with me for him. I was so in shock I literally started laughing. I swear I laughed for like 10 minutes before I started bawling. About a week later, he wanted his friend Clarence to talk to me for him so I told his Clarence straight up, "if he wants to talk to me he needs to come talk to me himself." A few days after that, in the courtyard he was telling everyone how obsessed I was with him. I was pissed when I herd that and confronted him and started cursing his ass out. He started walking backwards away from me but I followed as I threw every word in the book out there. He never bothered me again until... 9th grade. Yup. Lucky me had not one, but TWO classes with him. Freshman year we had 3 classes a day. We had A day, which was period 1,3, and 5. And we had B day which was period 2,4,6. So the first day of school was A day. I had 5th period with him (Science) and you can imagine how pissed off I was to see him. I don't remember clearly, but I don't think we spoke that class. The next day was our first B day, and I was happy both first classes and then he walked into 6th period (Algebra 1). You can imagine how pissed I was that day too. Well a few days passed and rumors had gone around that he had been a douche bag to this girl, which made me even more pissed. He confronted me about my hatred towards him so I let him have it. In the end he ended up storming out of the classroom after telling me I had no right to judge him. So I went home, and did a lot of thinking. I was a Christian at the time so I prayed. Well after a few hours of thinking about it, I realized I had never really gotten over him. I still had feelings for him and I was only pissed because he had broken my heart. No, he had crushed my heart. Well I decided to let go of the anger, and give him a clean slate. We ended up becoming good friends and I ended up telling him I really liked him. Well a couple days later I find out AFTER I told him that, he started going out with my0
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