Visiting my EX boyfriend? Good idea or bad?

UnknownGirl96
So, were together for 3 years and friends for 6. But recently we broke up. We don't stay THAT far from each other, its like a 2 hour drive. But its still distance to us! Can't just drive around the block when we miss each other. Anyway, we broke up like 5 days ago and we had planned to meet up (before we broke up) to spend the night together for the 1st time. But all that got canceled when we broke up (I got mad and canceled)... He was mad that I didn't want to meet so I feel I owe him that at least. I want to drive to go meet him, not meet halfway... but drive ALL THE WAY THERE! We've broken up before and its usually over small things that always lead back to distance. Usually I'm the one to try to fix our relationship, but last time, he was the one to man up and meet me halfway and he apologized about everything. Distance can stress you out and we work a lot and then I'm in school on top of all of that. Well, I'm a little excited and a little scared. Not sure if I should call him when I do come visit to see if he's at work or at home... or if I should just surprise him. And I don't know how he's going to react. But I know he's always wanted me to come visit him, because he always comes to visit me! Another big thing, I have to drive through Memphis, TN. And I HATE their traffic and I'm terrified of driving through there on my own, so I want to leave early in the morning so there won't be as much traffic. by the way, my parents will be gone that weekend, that's why I'm going. (We're both 20 and my parents believe he should make ALL the moves) I believe that it should be somewhat equal. He does a lot for me, so I just want to return the favor. Although we're single now, this could help us get back together maybe, and if not, I'd be fine. But I want him to see that my actions match my words and that I'm trying to go that extra mile for him. Things kind of ended on a bad note. So any advice would be nice? Thank you and wish me luck!!

Visiting my EX boyfriend? Good idea or bad?
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