I married young my husband is older and this sucks i hate it. at firstwe married so we can stay together since i was going in to the military but now i dont want to stay together and i want it over but he doesn't and I don't know what else to do like i get so sad because i can't be free and normal like everyone else. i have never had a notmal dating life even in high school because i was poor and moving around now i have more freedom and i hate it. i talked to him but he wants to wait until the end of my contract before i make a decision. we make all these plans together but i dont feel like we should i dont know what to do he's not a bad person. But i have told him several times and he outs it off on something else like stress or i dont kniw what should i do?
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If you don't have children together yet, this may be the time to discuss this, honestly and frankly, with no blaming him on your part. ("It's not you; it's me...")
Be prepared for him to feel hurt and perhaps angry, since he may very well feel that he was doing his duties, and that you should have known what you were getting into when you married him.
"he wants to wait until the end of my contract before i make a decision."--he has a very good point. It would be best to *wait until your hitch is up* before doing something drastic. You might lay the groundwork now, but don't leave him in a lurch. When your hitch is up, then do it.
"i have never had a notmal dating life even in high school because i was poor and moving around"--were you a MIlitary Brat then, as well as military now?