Spot on... You rarely if ever see the person that initiates the split looking for closure.. Usually people seeking closure are looking to get their foot in the door anyway. Start talking about all the wonderful times they shared, then blast them with the negative times if they are not getting romantic feelings reciprocated.
Yeah, but it just eats me up that I will never know why or what happened. Maybe I still have a chance?
Sometimes, there are no answers. For whatever reason she has in her heart/mind, it is done.. I would respect that and move on. If she has doubts inside over her choice, she will come back. But you begging will not give her the time, space, comfort or freedom to explore those ideas internally.
Thanks,But I am feeling like I was not good enough for her... She was this perfect amazing girl with so many great qualities... I just wasn't good enough for her, I don't have any good qualities I guess. Otherwise I would be holding her in my arms :'(
Do you know how many people get dumped on this planet? By your logic then, all dumped people are then not "good enough" for someone, and that is simply not true. Brilliant, amazing people even get dumped. Almost anyone for that matter has been dumped at some point and if not, maybe rejected. It's a humanly thing to experience and doesn't take away from you. You are good enough. There is just something wrong with feelings and chemistry, and that is something neither you or she can help with.
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