Opinion needed, what can I do?

So spouse filed for divorce about a month ago. She said there's irreconcilable differences. But told me she wanted to remain friends. And that I can try to win her back and she'd maybe then take me back. So I'm conflicted... why be friends and say there's no reconciliation but maybe turning hell inside out there's a chance? I asked if she'd try marriage counseling she said no. So I'm very confused.
Opinion needed, what can I do?
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