Most Helpful Guy
When you feel that your emotions are fading. When you feel like it's time to move on because the relationship has ran it's course and although sad it may be the waiting is just to much. Understand it's not about caring less or not wanting the best for the one your with because I'm sure you do; its about knowing that you have to keep moving forward in your own life and knowing that being so far away isn't working. Sure it's good to fight the good fight and try your hardest to make things work but the reality is if you've tried and for what ever reason you know inside that you can keep going anymore the way you are going; thats when the reality needs to be met and reality says that, that is when it's best to move on rather than stay in a situation that you don't like. It's not that you're selfish it's that your dealing with your reality because your reality says that you need to move on because you not happy now. Your current situation is common and many people struggle with when it may be time to move on. Just keep in mind your not leaving because something bad happened your moving on because both of your lives and lifestyle's have grown apart and although you will love your ex as someone you once cherished and as a friend the distance and time apart has made you just that to one another "distant friends" no longer a relationship. You both need to move on and except that reality and hopefully either reconnect in the distant future or find someone who has a life that will connect well with yours and in that find new love. The hard part is moving on because one often feels as if one is giving up but the reality is that you aren't you're just moving forward and dealing with your own reality. Let those words be known to him or her and let them know how you feel and why you feel the way you do they may get upset but just let them know that it's time and how much he mean to you and give yourself time to recover after you talk to him or her. It will be hard at first to move on but hold tight the good memories and when your ready serch for new love. Till then take time to be strong in yourself and have no guilt nor feel sad for moving forward in life. I wish you luck dear and may you find happiness in what ever the future may hold for you.
Most Helpful Girl
1) Do you feel you're the only one initiating contact?
2) Do you feel like you may be annoying him because you're contacting him so much and he's not contacting you?
3) Are you sad more days than you're happy?
4) Does he make time each day to every other day to contact you?
5) Is he making you feeling too clingy?
6) Is he becoming distant?
7) Did y'all used to talk a lot more often than you do now?
8) Can you see a future with him, honestly?
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