Completely and utterly heartbroken; depression?
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How was life before you met him? It could have been dull... it could have been great but you survived then.
If you broke up with him first then, did you consider if you took the effort to try and have a real talk with him? If not, it wouldn't hurt to tell him what you feel and let him know you still love him. You have to tell him what's deep down inside so he'll tell you his and you never know, the two of you might come to compromise some things. In the end, do the things while you can so you don't have to live regretting what you hadn't done.
If he broke up with you then, look at how differently you would've handled it if you were in his shoes. He should know that it's only natural falling in love comes with insecurities and worries. If he didn't realize you were being insecure and didn't do anything anything about it to assure you were everything to him no matter what then, sorry, from someone looking at you two from afar, I'm not sure he's doing enough to show his love for you.
Remember that no one is perfect and, lovers break up and spouses divorce. Those couples who stay together the longest do so because they compromise. They learn to come to an agreeing point with one another. He gave you happy moments so cherish them as those lovely moments they were. If he really wanted out then respect his choice if you are really in love with him. Isn't wanting, too, what the other person wants if you really love them? Suppose I were your ex and you broke up with me. I want to make sure I've communicated with you clearly I still love you and if it makes you happier to leave, then I'll let you because I love you and respect your decision - but know that my love for you won't ever change. Something like that.
Don't let your break up be due to a faulty miscommunication. Let it out, and if it really has to end, then end it with class. Because you're a person, he's a person. You're no lesser than him. You're precious. You shouldn't have to go through all this. If he loves you and knows you're going through all this, then he couldn't just stop loving you and let you enter misery.
hey, could i ask how old you both are and when you broke up and who finally ended it? xx
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