Friends with Benefits went south, now what?
What Guys Said 1
"Pretty much, he still didn't want a relationship and I still wanted one"
That's your problem right there. You were on separate pages and wanted to push a relationship.
Sorry, it don't work that way.1
What Girls Said 1
What you need to do is take your eyes off of him and put your eyes on yourself. You are deluding yourself and fighting for this illusion of a relationship that doesn't truly exist. This guy does not want you. I'm sorry to be the one to tell you that, but you need to hear it, accept it, and move forward with your life without lingering around his life like an abandoned, starving, neglected puppy who won't leave someone's doorstep after they slammed the door in their face. For whatever reason, this guy is not interested in experiencing you as a girlfriend. He does not share the desire and urge to experience all the wonderful, lovely nonsexual things you would like to enjoy with him. You're not the woman he wants to bring on his arm to family weddings and work parties. So the more you try to force and push yourself into his heart, the more you prolong your heartache and hurt yourself. Honestly girl, you should have accepted this a long time ago instead of agreeing to be "friends with benefits" and essentially trying to win him over with your sexual side. You cannot win a man's heart with your vagina. You cannot give a man's soul a boner with your pussy. A man is not going to wake up and realize he loves you because you have good pussy or have sexed him enough to learn what he likes, how he likes it, and just how to lay down the meticulous trimmings on dat dick.
The way you handle this is by removing yourself from his life instead of keeping the hope and faith alive that he'll one day change his mind and start treating you more like a Queen and less like a piece of ass.1
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