I have been told the feeling of being in love is someone you only feel in the beginning of new relationship. yet... its something i only felt once why is that? With my 2rd girlfriend i pretty much forced myself to date her their was no passion or intense high feeling.. just no chemistry. Now with my 3rd girlfriend i thought just maybe just maybe she can give me the feeling of looking for but its been 4months and nothing. I mean don't get me wrong i love her a lot am so freaking happy with her but i just don't get the feeling of being in love from her. What do u thinkni should do? the main reason i asked her was becuase i notice a spark i do have real feelijg for her but nothing past that.