How to leave a ten year relationship with the father of my children?
What Guys Said 1
You're scared to leaved because you fell guilty but you ONLY LIVE ONCE!!! If he's not doing his share of the work then leave... The kids might be scared and confused but fuck it... sacrifices must be made...
What Girls Said 1
You have two options: Work together on changes, because I like you married young, and have been married for almost thirty years. Marriage is work. You have ups, and downs. Chances are he is not the only one needing to change. If you can't communicate to fix the issues, you have nothing. Sit down if you care, tell him it is the last chance. Ask him what you can do to change for him. Take it a day at a time. Set goals, see where you are when the goal dates come. If you haven't made progress, leave... don't be miserable always, and don't just stay for the kids... those marriages make the worst... kids will adapt, as long as you remain on friendly terms and don't play games... best of luck
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