My ex boyfriend and I broke up in August we are still friends and tried to be "friends with benefits" for a while but now he's met this girl he's really into. At first I was happy for him but now I just feel jealous and hurt and I've realized I'm so deeply in love with him still. All I want is him but I don't know if its even possible to get him back. Should I even be hopeful? Should I just stop talking to him completely? I have no idea what to do. I just want to tell my feelings but I know he doesn't feel the same.
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I'm very sorry. Heartbreak is so painful. Pain is only proportional to how much a person loves, so you obviously love him so very much.
It's extremely painful seeing someone you love... loving someone else. Personally, I'd cut all contact with him. You're holding onto a guy who's already let you go. It's time to let him go so you can heal and move on from him.
The only way to get over a heartbreak is to cut all ties, delete pics and messages, because people feed their memories by reminiscing about what was and dwelling on what could have been.
As long as you cling onto false hope and keep in contact with him you'll never move on. Gradually memories will then fade and the pain will ease