I am experiencing this personally too often but I described something like this happening to a friend in one of the guys answers to elaborate.
Ok let's just forget this for a second that he is a man, and insecure...I wasn't there and don't know exactly what he said but if a friend was complimented on their youthful looks and you disagreed, would you argue? No, you have more respect for their feelings than that, you may wish inside, aww I wish people said that about me but if you said that out loud that would just make you an ass, so what does that say about your friends boyfriend.Not insecure... just an ass
Lol! No one was inferring that;)
well clearly you were subtly ;P
I did not ask her about his penis size. I thought that was rather tmi lol.
hahha I know I am just playing with you :D
Guys think about penis size a lot, way more than women do. We want to find someone we can have something meaningful with. And these guys are betting it all on their size.
Yah what are you gonan do though? That's just how us guys are just like how women obsess over their boobs size more than men do.
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I respect your honesty☆
Yeah.. thanks.just really blows you know? secretly (as in I don't mention this) I want the other person to be mine. to be close, but not clingy close - yet trying to be closer while giving me space.fuck, I'm a teen angst novel lol
We all have that not sure where the balance is thing going on, I think?
hence my angst comment. I don't even know hah
Just wait until you are middle-aged like me, and then things will make more sense. You'll be really jaded but things will make more sense. You'll be kinda confused who YOU are anymore though. Life is funny that way.
weird.. I'm also already jaded.. Every woman I fell for cheated on me... and the one who didn't also kinda did.. and she I found out - I needed the most.
She also kinda did?
Being shy is no crime. A shy man can be endearing. Don't be afraid to be yourself♡
Well, I guess more accurate than "shy" is "too quiet and a little paranoid". I'm not afraid to be myself.The main issue is volume. In grade school ages, I was so shy I could hardly look up away from the floor unless I was only with family. Almost no problem like that anymore, but I'm so used to talking quietly from being shy most of my life that I sound like I'm talking loudly when I try to speak up. Every with family. Sounding loud from my perspective scares me that I might accidentally yell...As for being paranoid, I'm always afraid of interrupting people upon approaching them. Especially when they're talking with other people. Because of epilepsy, I am not allowed to be anywhere but home without my parents close by until it's cured. I can't get a job and look for people, so I can only practice in Church as everyone is talking in groups and moving around in loud rooms. Nearly impossible to try, which is why I have no offline friends.Thanks for reading. Way too long. Sorry...
I hope you get to resolve it soon and get closure. I know that can drive a person crazy. It may have absolutely nothing to do with you. People who cheat usually do it because there is something wrong with THEM not you. I know it doesn't feel that way though:(
ty for that answer your so rite but this thi g i have love is so hard
You are better off without her. People who cheat are wrong for you. They are wrong for anybody.
My friend who is my age was going with a guy who is also our age. She could pass for at least 10 years younger. Someone mentioned it and he got really bent out of shape about it. He looks his age or older. He tried to argue about it even though it's a common opinion. Why couldn't he just agree to the obvious, pay her the compliment and feel proud? Instead, he freaked out.
Not everyone handles aging well. It's a lot easier to be the one receiving the compliment. He was being petty, but, that doesn't sum up all men.
That's not the only example. Seems like almost everyone I become involved with gets like that too, in one way or another. There is always that jealousy that can't be healthy.
Maybe its your taste in men, not their insecurities.
I hope it's that simple:)
Right now I feel like I only attract older women that are taken. Its maddening. I thinkbi night be falling for one of them, but, they are taken.
It's happening a lot not just to me.
That's an entirely different scenario. If she is taken but encouraging you, beware of your heart. This sounds like a selfish person.
Well it's not about them, it's about me. Don't get me wrong, I don't need anyone. But it would be nice to have someone, but the only ones I attract are them. I don't what it is about me, but that's how it is. If I do attract someone that's single, I find out 5 years later when they tell me they liked me, yet they never tell me anything.
That's good because I see a lot of them acting crazy these days, scaring girls off.