So my ex and I were together for only about 3 months and he recently broke up with me because he said I was starting to do some of the same things his ex did (He was with her for 3 or 4 years). At the beginning we had the best connection ever we always joked and laughed with each other and went out on dates and everything was always so light hearted and fun. Recently like the last couple weeks of our relationship everything was different we were arguing and he's the type of person who shuts down so if he feels like I'm being to argumentive he simply won't reply or acknowledge anything which I never understood this so it only caused me to get angrier and I'm the type where my temper has always been a problem and I can say some irrational and outlandish stuff. He told me that we don't even have fun anymore like we use to and he didn't want to go through the same thing he went through with his last relationship. He seemed really upset about me being upset about the break up I could tell he didn't want to see me upset he kept saying "it wasn't suppose to end this way" and "why do you say what you say when your upset" he was asking if we could be friends and even joking that I was still probably gonna drunk text him and come over like I've done plenty of times before. It's only been a couple days since we broke up going on day 3 and we haven't communicated at all during this time except he's liked a lot of my stuff on Facebook more then he use to before. He liked one of my pictures that I posted I got all dressed up and took cute pictures just to make me feel better (but he usually likes my pictures so that's nothing special) but he also was liking a few of my shared post that I shared specifically cause of the breakup. What does this mean? If given time do you think we could rekindle things I agree when he says we lost the fun that we use to have but maybe after sometime focusing on myself and my insecurities and temper problem.. I don't know
What does my ex's actions mean?
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It seems to me that he is afraid for his future with you. His previous relationship ended cause of specific reasons, things he didn't want to deal with anymore. And now that he is paying extra attention to what he doesn't want to happen, it's constantly on his mind.
Example: my ex and I are still friends. Dated a year and now almost a year broken up. I constantly think of the things that he does that I don't like cause they remind me of how things were and it's just not what I want anymore at this point. So I think about dumping him as a friend cause it feels like it can't be fixed. Thinking about or actually breaking up generates feelings and memories however, which make us miss the old times. Therefor I am more likely to be nice to him in other, insignificant ways, like liking a picture on facebook.
He misses you, he is willing to give it another chance, but he doesn't want to repeat his previous relationship. He wants change0
i think that you could rekindle things... losing fun? go out and have adventures together0
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