We are still friendly with each other but he doesn't show any interest in his child and rarely has seen her. Being a mother is wonderful and my daughter is my world but not wanting to create friction and hostility between each other, so never pushed him too hard since breaking up.
I told him he can see her whenever he wants and left it up to him. I can handle and have pretty much done everything since she was born so never felt I needed anything. Am I wrong for not pursuing him for child support or a lot of contact?
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It's his child, too. If he's a lazy ass it may be more trouble than it's worth. I don't know a thing about how to make it happen or what's involved. It's also just hard to imagine him not offering to help. Sorry he's such an ass… I know that's not much help; I just thought you deserved a better answer than the first one.1
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