Should I send my ex a birthday card?

We broke up 1.5 years ago, then got back together for 2 weeks recently, then he broke up with me again saying he didn't want to hurt me again. Messed up relationship right? Obviously I still love him more than anything and cannot let him go, and I want to do something sweet like send him a birthday card.

Is this the wrong thing to do? If he gets it in the mail from the ex girlfriend he knows still loves him, will it make him uncomfortable as a desperate move, or will it do what I intend it to do, which is make him smile and know that I'm there for him?

Please help me stop obsessively thinking about this.
Should I send my ex a birthday card?
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