Most Helpful Guy
No, I am a logical person so I have never had any feelings for anyone.
However yes, I can understand what you are saying and yes it does happen that once that person leaves you your feelings grow stronger, but I think this is just a temporary effect.
Most Helpful Girl
Maybe both. But I truly believe we women, are good at wanting the unavailable. IT just seems to be the law of nature or something... ask yourself if they were just "out of the country" for awhile but were still "yours" would you miss him then? IF the answer is not really, you just want what you can't have... we all go through it trust me!!!