I'm breaking up with him because he has mental health issues and it's quite hard for me to support him all the time especially because he refuses to get help for them. He puts me on a pedestal and I don't see a future with him, I'm just not happy in the relationship anymore. I plan to meet him and break up with him at a coffee shop near his house, I need advice from people who have been dumped unexpectedly and people who have done the dumping.
Most Helpful Guy
have a freind with you when you dump him most people that have issues dont handle it well. so a freind being with you is a good idea.
Most Helpful Girl
You've got some good advice here from others. I'm just opposed to you doing the breaking up at a coffee shop near his house. Too public i think. And he may not feel comfortable going there again. A park would be better. There will be people around but at a distance.