Most Helpful Guy
You try for something else you really want and get rejected at that too. Repeat.
Eventually you start to identify this weird pattern where you get rejected but somehow... You're still alive. Then it stops mattering as much and you stop getting rejected as much because you don't manifest that aura that you need this to work out.
When someone feels that what they're giving is valuable they immediately start trying to give less. When they think it's not enough they try to give more. Don't game the system. Just give what you want to give until you realize that the value of what you have to offer is not determined by who will accept it.
Most Helpful Girl
Sometimes people aren't compatible, and it's hard when you felt something they didn't. Put yourself out there again and meet new people, keep yourself busy and the hurt will fade out. Don't keep revisiting the time you shared together or what you "could" have had