ended up pregnant had an abortion then my boyfriend gets out of jail things were good until my ex showed up one day I was gone and tells my boyfriend that we slept together any is hating on me real bad but he has no room to speak because he has cheated on me with other girls he says I could never hurt him and I didn't hurt him and that we will never be together again that there will never be an us again is there any chance he still cares or a chance that we could work things out
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1. He cheated on you with other girls (plural) meaning it happened more than once. And you stayed with him. That doesn't mean he owes you the same forgiveness. If anything, it invites him to walk all over you and probably means he doesn't ACTUALLY have any respect for you because, well, any woman who was deserving of respect wouldn't have stood for being cheated on multiple times.
2. He went to jail for 9 months. And you stayed with him. This combines with fact 1 means you're a thirtysomething woman who never got out of her "bad boy" phase from her teenage years and the fact that you never "grew up" in this sense means that you're going to be in nothing but dysfunctional relationships with guys who will take advantage of you and use you and try to control you. This is what you INVITE by being the way you are. Accept it and deal with it, or start raising your standards and standing up for yourself.0