As title suggested, just got ghosted and dumped.
Really painful and heartbroken now.
Any tips to get rid of my sorrow and stop thinking about him?
Most Helpful Guy
Nothing is going to make you get over it in an instant. Things take time to get over. While hobbies and keeping busy is a good thing, alone time and reflection are equally important. It's perfectly normal to talk about your ex for a while, and a time will come when you can talk about them and not really miss them, or try to back step and wonder, "What did I do wrong?" "Could I have made it work?" Etc etc. Also, just remember you never make your life better by making it worse. Don't spiral out of control with drugs, alcohol, or excessive spending/risky behavior. Things will work out for the best, just take your time and don't leap into another relationship off the bat. Chances are you will pick someone worse or with poor judgement, and that will leave you even more damaged in the long term.1
Most Helpful Girl
Just think about other things, go out with your friends, have fun, work, work out, talk to other guys look flawless girl, go shopping, have a new haircut etc.
Depending on how long you've been together you can forget him even in a couple of days. It doesn't take me more than 2 days.
ONE THING: don't stay at home alone, you'll drown in your thoughts.1
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