Girl friends mom forcing us to break up?

So I have been dating my girlfriend for almost nine months I'm a freshman in college and she's a sophomore we were in school together and fell in love. Well her mom has decided to break us up because she wants her daughter dating around with other guys and is forcing us to break up. My girlfriend loves me and I love her and we don't want to break up we love each other a lot and we don't find it fair and her mom no matter what won't change her mind. I love her so much and she does too. I don't think I could live seeing her with another man. And she doesn't want to date anyone else she said and I said the same thing we love each other and I have no idea what to do. Neither does she all we know is that we love each other so much. Someone please tell me what to do in this tough situation we only have 7 months left together and her mom is breaking us up at the end of the first week of summer. I love her but I just don't know what to do I have talked to her mom and so has she about how she feels I am just falling apart and so is she.

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Most Helpful Girl

  • Listen, her daughter is a young woman. There is a real serious problem, and her mom doesn't like you for some reason. Her caught should not be dating around. She sounds like she is envious and has issues. You both needs to stand up with this. You two don't sound like you have problems. If you don't stay together, guess what, she will be miserable and probably not date anybody. Her mother is wrong. This is where I say, you two stay together and if you two want to get married, get married. I bet you her mom is single. Her daughter, your girlfriend chose YOU. And she needs to stand up and tell her mother that she has already made her choice. She needs to drop it. Her mom doesn't know what she is talking about. Focus on your relationship, you two make a choice. I say get married and heck with the mother. Let her whine all day. Do what you two have to do.

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    • her daughter should not be dating around. *

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    • Her mom threatens to file a fake rape charge if we don't comply she black mails and she's married by the way and her husband hates me because he thinks I'm not successful? I'm in college lol

    • Wow , I suggest that you two get all of this on recording. Because be prepared for a lawsuit. Blackmail and false rape allegations will land both her parents in jail.

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  • I don't see how she can really stop you two. She can't force her daughter to date another guy. A worse case scenario would be lying to her mom about seeing each other and in a few years move in together. I would be respectful to her mom though. Her mom thinks she's helping her daughter and she probably doesn't give you much credibility as a 18 year old. There's a good chance her mom may feel differently in a few years and may regret what she's trying to do now.

    Her mom may think all 18 year olds are bad influences. She may think her daughter needs to be alone to study or grow. She may think 18 and 15 is taboo and bad. If you two are a great couple, I would ignore her irrationality, and eventually the mom will likely change her mind.

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    • Her mom won't change her mind but her mom. But a friend told me that if our love is really true then she will come back to me in two years when she's 18. Just hurts to know I only have 7 months left with her we never have had a fight ever in our relationship. I told her from the beginning of our relationship that I don't fight and I don't lie to the person I care about. And I have always been honest with her and have nothing to hide because I love her just going to mess me up about this whole thing.

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    • Yeah her mom probably realized as she got older that she didn't realize what she wanted in a guy when her daughters age so she's trying to help her daughter. Of course, there are people that have found their partner even at 15 and stayed married for 60 years. It sounds like you two have a good situation based on what I've seen and you're cute together. I wouldn't be angry at her mom though. She's trying to help her daughter. I doubt her issue is with you. If you stay with her (even if you don't do sexual things besides like kissing which I think is legal), and you treat her daughter well and get along, I bet her mom will accept you in a year or two.

    • We kiss that's not bad

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What Girls Said 3

  • WTF is up with her mom? Do you guys not get along? Is there a reason she doesn't like you?

    Besides, her mom shouldn't be choosing her relationships. Your girlfriend should be choosing. And if she chooses you, then so be it. Is your girlfriend in college too?

    I think the girlfriend needs to move out of her mom's house and be able to live her own life. Her mom sounds messed up.

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    • We get a long perfect did u read the explanation it says we never had a fight she loves me I love her and her mom just wants her daughter to date around and I said she's still in high school but will graduate in two years

    • That's crazy though. If her daughter wants a relationship, she should be able to do what she wants.

  • That is so stupid! What kind of a mum wants there daughter to break up with the guys she loves, so that she can sleep around. I'm my oppinion you either make a stand and just tell her no (she can't force you to do anything or her anything) or you pretend to break up so everyone is happy!

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    • I don't want to make her mom unhappy and more pissed off and her mom is just like that we don't get that she doesn't sleep around that makes her sound like a hoe when she's not she's mine her mom just want her to date other guys and maybe find someone better. We hate this I try making a stand and she said if I keep asking her to stop she will file rape charges against and make sure my girlfriend never sees me again. So I don't know what to do and neither does she I love her and she's happy

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    • Well age of consent is 17 there. It looks like there's something there called the Romeo-Juliet Law, which means it's still illegal to be with someone under 17, but the person over 17 wouldn't be a sex offender if the minor is at least 15 and there's less than a 4 year age difference (so 3 years, 364 days or less I think). I would be surprised if there isn't a legal age difference threshold. One person being 17 and the other being 16.99 not being okay doesn't make sense to me.

    • I am two years and 10 months older so I'm fine

  • Aww that's devastating I am very sorry to hear that, If your both adults you are both free to do as you please. I really do hope it works out for only the very best. :)

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    • What do I do just wait and if she truly loves me she will come back to me when she's 18?

    • Oh if she's under 18 she then of course has to live under her mothers rule until then, If she truly loves she will in fact come back to you at 18 no doubt about that :)

What Guys Said 1

  • fuck her mum. you're both adults now you can do whatever you like. If you want to date then you can. unless you have a criminal record or have cheated on your girlfriend or are wasting in college, then there isn't a single reason why your girlfriends mum should break you up.

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    • The reason is why in the story above like I said the reason is she wants her daughter to date around

    • well why would she want to date other guys you're in a relationship and you love each other then it isn't really fair is it that she should make you date other people. nuff said

    • Ya it's stupid but she wants her daughter to date people her age but no matter what she said she's mine and she's not dating other people

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