It's been a week now since we broke up and she hasn't changed her fb profile picture yet which is the two of us together. I know this sounds dumb, but it's giving me false hope that she'll come back. I asked her to change it and she said no, she likes that picture.
She broke up with me because she started getting interested in other guys and it wasn't fair to me and she wanted to do her for a while since she was never ready for a relationship. We were together for a year and I gave her all of me and treated her very well and she did the same. I fell deeply in love with her and I wasn't expecting the break-up so it hit me like a truck. I tried winning her back but I just made things worse.
Her profile pic though is really doing my head in, I just don't understand why she hasn't changed it other than she's still unsure over her decision and that's giving me false hope. I don't want to be hopeful, I just want to move on from her because she broke my heart more than I ever though possible.
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Maybe she's finding it difficult to fully let go. You can't just shut off your feelings for someone after a breakup, even if " you" are the one that ended it. Or she could just be being stubborn and mean.. considering you want her to remove it. It's difficult to say without knowing her personality type
If you want to let go and move on, then the only way that's possible is to cut all means of contact, remove all traces of her from your life and from social media.
Get rid of pics, messages or anything of sentimental value , because people feed their memories by reminiscing. Those thoughts and memories feed the pain and keep it raw.
You're only holding onto someone who's already let you go. You should do the same0
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