My ex and I were together for 5 years. He became a drug addict and cheated on me. He did a lot of terrible things to me. When we split up he wouldn't leave me alone. For the past 5 months I hadn't heard anything from him.. then out of the blue he texted me... to say he's sorry and to be nice. I made it clear that I don't want to have contact with him. He said he just wants to be nice and if I want to talk or need anything I should contact him. Why? I feel like he's just using this as an excuse to talk to me so he can try to get back in my life. Am I wrong?
Most Helpful Guy
No, I think you're 500% right. I think you're doing the right thing by attempting to turn him away. Nothing good can come out of letting him back in your life, even if it's strictly as friends.0
Most Helpful Girl
He many genuinely be sorry and want to make amends, especially if he's been getting clean. But this doesn't mean you need to let him back into your life. I'd accept his apology, wish him well and ask him not to contact you again0