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Im sorry this jerk basically stole your money. Unfortunately, you may never get the money back. Jerks like that, give the rest of us guys an extremely difficult time dating girls. As far as sex goes, remember this: no one is born with all sorts of sexual experience and knowledge. It happens over time and having someone willing to teach you. Trust me, you're fine. What he said about you... like you pointed out - he an ass. And a total one at that!
Another path you might try is taking him to small claims court. You can try, but I don't know what success you'll have there. Typically the loser has to pay the court costs too, so be prepared if you go that route and lose.