Should I stay or should I move forward?

Me and my boyfriend of 4 1/2 years recently broke up. Because of the current distance. And then he told me he is not where he wants to be in life. And he is not finically steady, and as a man it's frustrating. He also has hinted to engagement. Saying that he needs time to get his self together and that this is not a break because of what he is planning to do (engagement). Now he is moving in with roommates to save more money. He said once he has saved more money he will move out. He is also thinking about going back to school. He sent me a message telling me that this will all pay off in the end! And that he is excited about this year.

I don't know what's going on it is confusing. I decided to stay in contact and we be friends (No sex) But we will still have lunch and hangout.

From this what what do you guys think is going on? He is trying to get finically secure to get better his self or is he mind fucking me?

Thank you all sooooooo much


Most Helpful Guy

  • Mind fucking you. What does all that nonsense have to do with him and you? I think its sad that he can't do all those things while still being in a relationship with you if he really wants you.

    I don't believe in waiting for people and now your free so hopefully when I guy that steady comes along he isn't pissed at you because he decided to let you go.

    • Yes, it is very confusing! We went from being great to all of a sudden break up out of no where. And it's hard for me to understand! When you are in a relationship for that long it's so hurtful expecially considering this is the first time we broken up! We have been doing distance for a while now. I'm at school and he got a steady job else where. I don't know where it went wrong. And I'm still trying to figure it all out. Why can't we still be together even through he is not stable.

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  • you should move forward


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