a week later he tried to bring a tinder date to a gig he knew I would be. He told our mutual friend that he was going, my friend thinks he was testing the waters, I said I wasn't going anymore I'm glad he's dating but what he was doing was so inconsiderate and to give my stuff back. He ended up not going
Once I got my stuff back, my friend said he didn't go because I messaged him.
I messaged him thanking him, that I didn't want things to be awkward between us and I wish him all the best. He's not messaged me through anything I said... did I do anything wrong I know he's seen what I said, I hate being ignored but i know there is nothing left to say.