Awesome answer, thank you @Razzle-Dazzle☺️
You're very welcome 💗 I hope everything works out for you , no matter what decision you make 💗
You too, big thanks☺️
Thank you @Paris13, and this is an advice for all guys/ girls who have their ex's texted them!
Thank you, @Pinky26, and along with my advice about just about many other things, I can honestly say that Many could learn from you with Positive Energy on Here, dear. No "Gag."lolxoo
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Thank you very much @Paris13 and I have to say that only advices bring energy to my soul, Thankiies!
@Pinky26, alon gwith some good friends, I put you way at the top of my "Thank you" List. xxoo
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No actually my ex texted me.
What did he say?
www.girlsaskguys.com/.../q2157507-my-ex-texted-me-but-i-can-t-understand-him-help go check and tell me what you think!
first reaction: what the fuck is his problem.so are asking if you are rude for not saying goodnight. I'd say you did not. He kept giving those weird replies. If you would have replied with "whatever.." to his good night, then that would have been rudeIf it was my ex acting like that i'd send her a message and say: look, if even in the given circumstances you play mind games and instead of saying what you want, you beat around the bush with nonsense, then i would rather spare myself the trouble and mind my business. i understand it is painful, but on the long run, it will hurt you more to get random and meaningless messages from him out of the blue.plus as he did not say much, i guess he was just checking to see if you are in pain and miss him. "Yeah, hold my hand, while i suffer for we broke up. See how much i suffer? But i don't want you back either. Just stand by me, while i get over you". I could hear him say that.
Yes, I totally agree with you, he is just playing with words, afraid to say what he has to say so that he will get dumped as he did to me. I think he was either considering for a longer convo but at the same time he excepts me to be overjoyed at him iniating the contact, and when I was not, he got offense, I think he probably has something to say but he is afraid that´s all, the thing is I will ignore him.
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Most people tend to stay distant especially if that person broke their heart and made them pass through a hard time. It's not always easy.
I have a different philosophy in life. Love is a two sided process. Even if one person is unhappy in the relationship , there is no reason for the relationship to survive. Love is the pillar of the relationship and if there is no love , it is better to terminate it on good terms.
Well done, because cheating after 10 years is not easy at all. But how did you get over him after 10 years😵
Sounds lame but time does heal. Saw all my friends I had neglected. Did what I wanted to do. Did what I needed to realise I was awesome without a guy.
I guess you're a very strong person, this is awesome, bc getting over someone you were with for 10yrs is a very big deal, but you did it!👏
Aw thank you. It was really hard. I also tried to just chat with other guys online even if not ready to date as I knew they were out there when ready. Cutting contact helped as well. And I have an amazing group of friends. m
The important thing is you went through a very hard situation but you were strong enough to handle all the pain, always remember, what doesn't kill you makes you stronger!
That's so true. Thanks for the kind words!
You deserve it☺️
Would he always take the initiative to talk to you? Or you contacted him first sometimes?
It was mostly him but I was always responsive.
I see, this is pretty commun!
Most of the time, even if we have feelings for the person, we tr to stay distant to show them you're no longer into them, bc as long as you show interest, you'll always be easy to reach!
Well, I am tend to not approach a person if she isn't interested to me. Also after my crush rejected me. which i was pretty sure she loves me as i love her. I won't ever try anything romantic as long as i am super sure she has feelings for me. First i think about "Talk and try to make the conversation longer." Because i still love my crush xD
haha I agree!
I wonder why I was downvoted.