I have never had to break up with someone before, last time someone broke up with me, and i found out before she had confronted me, so she never even actually had to say it
Most Helpful Girl
Very important that you don't drag this out any further than you already have. Do NOT ignore/stonewall her (aka ghosting) - as that will just make it hurt 10 times worse. She deserves more respect than that. I would just set up a meeting with her face-to-face at a neutral location and tell her your reasons in a sensitive way. Here is some good advice I found online: www.bustle.com/.../19248-7-nice-ways-to-break-up-with-someone
Most Helpful Guy
Just say things aren't working out and haven't been for a while.