This girl I was dating for 1.5 years completely fucked me over. This ended a month ago. To sum it up:
- She physically/emotionally abused me (Hit me, gave me a black eye, insulted me blah blah)
- Never complimented me (Trust me, would compare me to other guys saying you wish you looked like them)
- Would lie to my face
- Put me in a state of depression, made me hate myself. Always felt like I did everything wrong.
I wouldn't wish what she did to me on my worst enemy, but I'm emotionally fucked. I overthink, I have no confidence, I'm an angry person.
Most Helpful Girl
I'm so sorry this has happened to you! Dispel her from your mind by getting rid of any and all contact with her. No one deserves to be treated in such a way. Surround yourself with positive people, don't try to get back up on the horse immediately. Meaning, don't rush into anything with any girls. While saying that, that doesn't mean you shouldn't chat with any girls. Girls are extremely empathetic and you may even find your best friends or possible future girlfriend. Do not rush into anything unless your comfortable.
You won't get over her anytime soon, and there are tough times ahead, but you will get through it. Don't let the memories and actions of another, ruin you for someone special. It takes time to heal the wounds.
I wish you all the luck in the world, and again, I am so sorry this happened❤️0
Most Helpful Guy
Just move on with your life. Wish I could give you some encouraging words but I'm still recovering from my 8mo relationship that led to a quick engagement and was an open relationship and she still found a way to cheat on me with 6 guys. My ex never hit me but emotionally attacked me from the start and would play games at my expense.
I wish I could tell you it will get better soon, but it might be with you for your entire life. And nobody ever has the right to tell you that its in the past and that you should just get over it. You gave someone all of your trust, and sometimes when you give everything you have it just never comes back.
Best of luck in the fight man.0