I am seeing someone and this is the first person whom I've experienced intimacy with after the breakup... however, even though there is intimacy, at times I feel there is a lack of connection.
Sometimes I wonder why is this guy with me? (something my ex always used to ask me)... He is quite detached and so am I (at times), so I guess that is not really a good match. But the reason we got together was because 'it felt so right' and to have fit so perfectly emotionally. However, it was me who asked him - even though it was him at first who i think wanted to say he liked me but i shut him out because i didn't feel ready then.
We have now been going out for 5 months now and we both have not even said I love you yet... We both came out of really long term relationships (me 4 years, him 6 yrs)... so I don't know... Maybe we both aren't ready for a relationship and should not be together... What do you think?
i am 25 and he is 30