Let's say it's being already a year after an breakup without your ex?
Have you felt missing him, or missing the stuff you get used to do both together?
Most Helpful Girl
Might miss some of the things I did with him, but after a year, probably not so much... but that is the question: is time an Engraver or Eraser? Many people get stuck and can't seem to move forward. Best Advice: Keep the good memories, but go make more of them with someone else once it is over!!2
Most Helpful Guy
I'm sure everyone does this, but hopefully it's not excessive. Like... I had a pretty ugly divorce. She accused me of domestic violence, tried to get it so that I couldn't see the kids, etc. In the end, it didn't work but while I never actually miss her, I do look fondly upon some of the past times we had together. And this is someone who my friends and family wish ill upon! So if someone can look fondly on the past of someone like that, I would expect that people in general will catch themselves doing the same thing for their more normal breakups.
That said, if the missing is intense heartbreak, then I don't think that's normal. I feel that if someone isn't over a breakup after 3 months, they're doing things to ensure that they don't get over it.0